3 Reasons Why We Are Likely To Cheat On Each Other

Cheating on each other is not the kind of conversation you would want to have in a relationship. 

It happens to be overlooked despite it been very crucial and imminent. 

So why are partners in a relationship likely to cheat on each other really? 

 

1. Harboring Monotony.

Not all aspects of a relationship can be changed. But as time passes by, there are things that could be done in a different manner to bring out better results and effects in the same relationship.

By now you know that the only constant thing in life is change. Change in this particular argument is in context of how we appeal to the other partner and how we are obligated to fully submit and fulfill the other partner desires. The list could be longer.

The moment we voluntary decide not to appreciate, listen and respond to cries in a relationship over a prolonged period of time, we instigate a vacuum that withers feelings, care and attractiveness for one another.  Partners become distant and eventually necessitate the need to seek solace else where.

2. Facilitating Conditions To Cheat.

One day man bought a fine piece of fillet with an intention to prepare a surprising dinner for his wife. He noticed that he forgot something and had to return to the stores for it. The man also had a goat and a dog which roamed around his small compound. Since his wife was about to arrive from work, he decided not to lock the front door.

When the man returned from the store, he was met by his dog at the gate while the goat laid on the ground chewing the cud. Ready to prepare his fine piece of fillet, the man was shocked to find out that it was missing. The man rushed outside and noticed the goat was still chewing the cud. 

At that moment, he definitely knew the goat ate the fine piece of fillet and scolded it as the dog continued playfully running around the compound.

What is the moral of the story? 

In the first opportunity that presents itself to cheat on your partner is what we knowingly or unknowingly create. A man is more likely to cheat on his wife if he spends time at home with a housemaid and the reverse is true. 

As a caring partner, it is advisable to be your partners keeper by vetting the kind of company they spend time with. More still is avoiding those environments that do not morally contribute positively towards your relationship. 

 

3. Unguarded Morality.

The sheer will to choose the kind of actions we take in a specific situation mainly where our morals are put to test totally depends on the degree of our self-control.

The moment we decide to let go of our moral guards is the moment we commit the inevitable. We face situations that tempt us to either walk away or trade our morals for gains even if it means ruining a relationship built on the grounds of trust, commitment and faithfulness. 

This very moral can be strengthened by always practicing self-restraint, explicitly standing by your words and firmly objecting advances that you feel are uncomfortable.  Talking or sharing your experiences with your partner will bring relief and support for each other. You could go a notch higher and seek moral guidance and teachings from relevant institutions as partner.

By talking about it, one stands a higher chance of been more prepared to face any moral challenge in the future.