A relationship between two people and especially whom are emotionally connected has been and is today a subject of discussion in search of answers and advises on how to make it a success.
There is no doubt that behind any relationship there is an interesting story on how it started, on the contrary there is an explanation behind any past or broken relationship.
One of the most disappointing reality in any relationship is coming into terms with the fact that not all is going smoothly and probably sooner or later those memorable moments cherished and spent together with promises made might all have been in vain.
So why do we start relationships only to end up frustrated or feeling much worse and regretting why we ever got into that relationship in the first place?
There are a handful reasons why one would want to start a relationships and despite how odd or insane they might sound, here are some of the reasons why people start relationships.
-A Simple Attraction Is All That It Takes
In the back of our minds there is a vivid imagination, a certain degree of expectation of the kind of relationship we want to have. It is when we encounter a person similar to our imagination that an attraction begins.
We speak loudly while walking, we even speak louder when we are well groomed. Nothing emanates more self confidence in a person then when dressed up for the right occasion.
Getting it right on the first time means you stand a better chance of actualizing the kind of relationship you have in mind.
A pleasant-look brings out more taste, texture and artistic aspects this adds more to your personal qualities, it makes you score highly on your first meeting. It resonates strongly on your partner a goal achieved in a relationship even before you otter a word.
-An Ideal Match, A Partner For Life
Good were the old days when one of the ladies would catch the bouquet and one of the males would catch the garter, fate would see to it that the lady got married next and the single bachelor (symbolically) become legally obligated to marry!
Do not get held down by those old and good days, because even today relationships can still work and they are working. Everyone has a friend who has a friend that ended up in a relationship with a perfect match such that it become the talk of town.
Nothing lightens and keeps a conversation flowing like using the right words on the right time as that would be all that is needed to start a relationship.
A good choice of words can enforce those initial and vital bonds to kick start a new relationship.
If you heard someone comment that “those two were created for one another,” it was because their relationship was an ideal match.
-Friends With Benefits or Any Other Business (AOB)
Any relationship requires a certain degree of commitment, however small it may be. It could be surprising each other with a gift once in a while, it could be having dinner together every weekend or using a few minutes of your time to call your partner to know how he/she is fairing.
Not all relationships happen to have an emotional connection. In such a relationship there exists a beneficial factor that both partners gain every time they spend time together. It is a win, win kind of relationship mostly referred to as a relationship with benefit.
Anyone not ready to commit in a relationship may find this kind of relationship more appropriate as it last only for a short period.
One would prefer a friends with benefits kind of relationship probably because in their professional life hardly does time allow them to have a walk in the park. On the other hand, probably this is the only kind of relationship that works perfectly for them.
There is no doubt that behind any relationship there is an interesting story on how it started, on the contrary there is an explanation behind any past or broken relationship.
One of the most disappointing reality in any relationship is coming into terms with the fact that not all is going smoothly and probably sooner or later those memorable moments cherished and spent together with promises made might all have been in vain.
So why do we start relationships only to end up frustrated or feeling much worse and regretting why we ever got into that relationship in the first place?
There are a handful reasons why one would want to start a relationships and despite how odd or insane they might sound, here are some of the reasons why people start relationships.
-A Simple Attraction Is All That It Takes
In the back of our minds there is a vivid imagination, a certain degree of expectation of the kind of relationship we want to have. It is when we encounter a person similar to our imagination that an attraction begins.
We speak loudly while walking, we even speak louder when we are well groomed. Nothing emanates more self confidence in a person then when dressed up for the right occasion.
Getting it right on the first time means you stand a better chance of actualizing the kind of relationship you have in mind.
A pleasant-look brings out more taste, texture and artistic aspects this adds more to your personal qualities, it makes you score highly on your first meeting. It resonates strongly on your partner a goal achieved in a relationship even before you otter a word.
-An Ideal Match, A Partner For Life
Good were the old days when one of the ladies would catch the bouquet and one of the males would catch the garter, fate would see to it that the lady got married next and the single bachelor (symbolically) become legally obligated to marry!
Do not get held down by those old and good days, because even today relationships can still work and they are working. Everyone has a friend who has a friend that ended up in a relationship with a perfect match such that it become the talk of town.
Nothing lightens and keeps a conversation flowing like using the right words on the right time as that would be all that is needed to start a relationship.
A good choice of words can enforce those initial and vital bonds to kick start a new relationship.
If you heard someone comment that “those two were created for one another,” it was because their relationship was an ideal match.
-Friends With Benefits or Any Other Business (AOB)
Any relationship requires a certain degree of commitment, however small it may be. It could be surprising each other with a gift once in a while, it could be having dinner together every weekend or using a few minutes of your time to call your partner to know how he/she is fairing.
Not all relationships happen to have an emotional connection. In such a relationship there exists a beneficial factor that both partners gain every time they spend time together. It is a win, win kind of relationship mostly referred to as a relationship with benefit.
Anyone not ready to commit in a relationship may find this kind of relationship more appropriate as it last only for a short period.
One would prefer a friends with benefits kind of relationship probably because in their professional life hardly does time allow them to have a walk in the park. On the other hand, probably this is the only kind of relationship that works perfectly for them.
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